I'm in Ohio. Made it "in time" to see Granddad. He's still hanging in there, too stubborn to let go (yes, now you know where I get it from). The family's all gathered now, and it's basically just a matter of waiting. We all have our moments when it's just all too sad to deal with, but for the most part I think we're ok. I have a lot of thoughts I want to get down on paper, but I'm having lots of trouble concentrating these days, so those might take a while. I have a fair amount of free time at the moment, and email and phone access, so don't be strangers (unless you are a stranger, in which case you should probably stay that way!)